
Patient 323 has entered the chatroom.
am i the only one here?
Nope! Therapist Na is already waiting for you!
How was your homework?
How was your day?
my day was as usual
i won't get into details since it's personal where I'm working and so on...
about the homework
i liked it
the picture was nice and the feeling right after was good too
where did you find it?
All mighty internet!😉
Now, why do you think it felt good?
it relaxed my body when i did it
and it has been a while since i touched myself
This is a bit of a progress, Patient 323! ❤️ That means you are slowly moving to your more active sex life, even if it's solo. But there are still things blocking you from it
Let's talk about your insecurities~
We've already covered that you're insecure about your weight. Which body parts is your weight the most evident?
belly, of course, then cheeks, thighs as well
all of these are cute, to be honest!
it wasn't cute to my boyfriend
maybe he was the wrong person for you to be with?
what?
Out of these three, which brings you the most insecurity when you take your clothes off?
definitely my belly. it's very soft, easily grabbable with hand...
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Sorry! Wrong emoji! Was meant to sent 🤔
okay?
You're exercising, right? But it doesn't change anything
exactly. that just pushes me further away from looking for a relationship.
i go to the gym near my house
a few guys have hit on me but we just talk and don't take it further
i'm not letting them
But they hit on you, Patient 323! That surely does mean something!
they just want to do me, no relationship
Maybe that's what you're missing? Maybe you have to start with casual sex. People do want you
but isn't it being casual is way harder?
Not quite. Casual sex just leads to sex, no other connections, meaning they most likely wouldn't even care how you look. Also, knowing that they're also hitting the gym... Maybe they also have insecurities?
right! i haven't thought about that
So... maybe you should give them a chance?
right...
how do I do that, though? i can't just go to them and ask them right away
I'd advise you to make eye contact with them the next time you're coming to the gym which is what day?
tomorrow...
Then tomorrow, please make eye contact with one of them. This should lead to you two talking. Then as things escalate, ask them if they want to hook up!
that doesn't sound as easy as you make it sound, therapist na
I know, but if one of them is really looking for hookups, everything should be fine, right? 😁
i don't know
You're doubting. Are you not confident in your flirting skills?
not really. i don't think I'm a good flirt
i'm doing better if someone else is flirting with me
Let's try flirting then! The flirting simulator game begins now!
you can do it here?
(yes, sex therapy works in many ways!)
lifting weights and slightly glances at you
uh
also looks at you
gets flustered and turns away smiling
doesn't know what to do
(You should come to him)
comes to him
removes his headphones and raises his brow. Can I help you?
doesn't know what to say
(You can tell him you've seen him looking at you before)
i've seen you looking at me before
You have?
yup! did you want to ask me something?
(good boy)
smirks. Maybe?
you can ask me that now. if i'm not bothering you, of course. i'll soon leave
Yeah... Do you want to get coffee with me sometime? I think we could be friends
what type of friends exactly?
Gym buddies or something more!
something more like??
Friends with benefits...
you think it's a great idea?
nods. Mhm, if you're single!
(this sounds fake. i doubt anyone would openly say it like this)
(it's a simulation game, it is a bit fake. but it's very likely he'd ask you to coffee and then think about sex)
What do you say?
i have to think...
(being hard to get is good!) Can I get your phone number?
sure. gives phone number
Give me a call and let's talk about it over the phone! bites his lip
leaves
confused
i'm sorry but this is stupid
if the conversation goes like this, neither of us is getting sex
Be more positive 💗 Looking for casual sex is normal! Usually, it shouldn't even involve any difficulties
but i don't have to do it if i don't want to, right?
This is not your homework, but a task that you may or may not do. It's up to you!
okay, then I'll think about it
That's it for today. Carefully think about this task. Even if you're not doing it, you can still look at those men and analyze them. I'll be more than excited to hear about it. What are they like? Do they look at you? Do they smile? Next time, you must tell me everything!!
thanks for this session
i didn't think i'd say this but I'm not as stressed as before when i have someone to discuss this with even when its hard for me to express myself through texting
you're helpful
Glad to hear that! ☺️ I'm applying different methods to you and some of them even have the methodism of Na Jaemin, so not very common! But everything will help you out in the end!
thanks again
good night
Good night!
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JAEMIN IS SO WEIRD AND FUNNY I LOVE IT
ReplyDeletePls therapist Na sending the wrong emoji seems actually planned or maybe not🤔🤔🤔
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